When someone poses the question, "How are you doing?" we often reply with a casual "Hi, thanks, I'm OK, and how are you?" Similarly, we're frequently asked, "Or kya chal raha hai aajkal?" to which we respond with, "Bas badhiya. Tum sunao?" Then, conversation moves on to other topics. But here's the thing: how many of us genuinely care about others' well-being when we ask, and how many honestly answer? Rarely, if we're being honest. It's a realization that not everyone has the time to truly listen to each person we encounter, but it doesn't excuse our tendency to brush off those inquiries. Paying close attention, we often overlook the voices of both acquaintances and strangers alike. Consider how often you've truly listened to your ten-year-old's story, or genuinely asked a friend about their mental and emotional state. How frequently have you responded to your parents' ailments with genuine concern? And whe...
A friend from Australia is listening to the audio messages I sent him on Instagram last night before going to bed. I could actually see his face as I was sending the message. He must have kept the phone's speaker close to his ear, trying to understand the thoughts behind the messages, in my imagination. I'm in a village in Maharashtra, staying in a house that is built in the style of old buildings and resembles a little fort with a massive gate and tomb at its entrance. The driveway leading to that residence has a little incline. As I approach the location where I will be staying, I see a number of modest houses. I was just going around because I hadn't seen anything from inside. The next thing I know, I'm sitting on a rock near the beach. I couldn't tell what time it was because there were people all over the place. My daughter is with me, and I notice a friend of mine approaching me. He was about to take a seat next to me when we heard the sound of waves. Although...